Self-Improvement Tips : How to Small Talk
December 18th, 2009
To increase small talk skills, avoid politics and religion, and focus on asking the other person questions. Learn to create small talk withtips from professional psychologist in this free video about self-improvement tips. Expert: Dr. Paul Vehorn Contact: www.AskDoctorPaul.com Bio: Dr. Paul Vehorn has a Ph.D and did graduate work in behavior psychology. Vehorn wrote “Dynamic Dating” and “Boomer Girls, a Woman’s Guide to Men & Dating.” Filmmaker: Christopher Rokosz
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yeah man I fucking hate that shit
Whats a extrovert? (just making small talk)
I’m sorry but small talk is bullshit. Small talk is for small minded people. Anyone who talks about meaningless shit over and over again is fucking annoying. Afterall 99% of the time I know what there going to say before they say it and have to watch them stand there and go on and on because they can’t figure shit out for themselves. It’s seriously sad that extroverts rule the world and force retarded shit like this on us introverts constantly.
Yes but It may just be that you are bigger than them and they are intimidated.
change your hair and what you wear =]
jk
what if you are a really good person but people frown at you because they find you intimidating because of the way you look,like your bigger than them and dressed mainly all in black with longish dark hair etc?
part 2,this guy is cool. listen more than talking is a good bet that you may may have a good time. do not try to impress people with the me, me, me monster. enjoy life. and try to keep from farting when meeting new people.
part 1, are you saying that i am a small person? you may understand what you think i said but im not sure that you realize that what you read is not what i meant. how about a dic, to bring up a subject, like pink roses, knives, poop, its endless. 1 of my fav ,snake. i used 2 have a inf complex until i knew i was superior. i feel so bad right now, am i a small person. no pol or rel . if the person has a harley starts talking about it, i would rather split my head with a 38 than listen to him.
I have a massive problem: I’m psychic so know what the other person will say next. People bore me.
obvious to some, hard to find for the socailly awkward… who would be among those watching his video(s)
lol
What do u do if u don’t know what to talk about..? and u think to much ABOUT what to talk about?
what ever hes say there just point crappy obvious things
dont think about what you should talk about so much
easy to say i know!
looks like he is falling a sleep
your 2 full of yourself 4 a start. people who love/talk about themselves too much are boring and come across as arrogant, hence people dont want 2 fuckin talk 2 u. arrogant people are the worst type of people to be stuck in a conversation with (that is if u are 2 full of yourself, im just going off what you’ve written)
its not them its you … you bug them …. you try too hard.. its not your fault. you cant help yourself
because small talk gets boring
your clearly too full of yourself. u must talk too much about yourself (use what u just said as an example, noones perfect). just trying to help, no offence
There has to be something that you’re curious about the other person….you’re just think about it inside your head…say, ask, and do what is in your mind….
I am good at small talk at social gatherings and talk to people easily but I seldom get to a higher level. I am smart and have an attractive smile. I maintain good eye contact and do just about everything right. The problem is people seem to always want to excuse themselves to go to the bathroom, etc. Their loss I guess.
What should I do when I don’t have any idea what to ask about?
good vid .. thanks
I totally agree that small talk is the gateway to every relationship that you might experience in life.
Hey I really enjoyed your video. I just posted a new one you might like. I look forward to your next one